Friday 2 March 2012

DIALOGUE AS A WAY OF LIFE




To co-exist in the pluralistic and multi cultured society like India where there are people of different way life, one needs to relate with the other responsibly and courageously.  The leaders of the society must give a true leadership in the spirit of building the community and not breaking it. Each culture has its own strength and weakness. Knowing one’s culture, religion and scripture in its real sense opens itself to see the other religious texts and practices in a constructive way. Once this is achieved, it enables the person to get into the other cultures and relish the goodness in it.  The fact that one is doing this, is already in “Dialogue.”

Starting point
To build any work, one needs to begin. The foundation laid on the rock, remains strong even though there is a strong wind and the foundation laid on sand will fall off even to a mild breeze. Therefore, what would be our foundation? There can be several foundations to begin an Inter-religious dialogue. It can be one’s experience, value systems, converging aspects, and diverging aspects. The aspects of faith, scriptural understanding, God, Ethics can also be strong starters. However, care should be taken by both the parties not to hurt each other. The dialogue becomes effective when both the parties can ‘laugh at each other’ when they make mutual criticism and thus cancel out the ill-feelings.

Learning from each other
Every religion is the seeker of Truth. Truth is that thing which does not change. In the core of every believer, there is a thirst for something which is unchanging. Every religious person is an advocator of this reality. My understanding of God begins here. In order to get soaked in this reality I engross myself in the Bible and Magisterium. This search does not end here, when I find it, I proclaim it to other, “Come and rejoice with me… it was lost and now I found it.” The second part of my life now becomes the ‘light and guide’ to others, that is ‘I live what I found and experienced.’

My thirst to ‘become light and guide’ cannot be complete without knowing the ‘other.’ And now I engross myself with the cultures of other, scriptures of other. When I see something converging, I pick it up and keep it on the lamp stand. When there is something ‘unbecoming,’ I critically evaluate it and if it is really causing damage to the community, I need to act against it. I think, the people who fought against the sati, child marriage, caste system, racial etc problems, is from this perspective. Irrespective of religion, the people of ‘good will’ supported this noble cause.

The two parties
Who engages in a healthy discussion? Only a happy person can engage a healthy discussion. ‘Happy person’ is he, who is having the mind of equanimity, love for the neighbor, self-less in thought and action and above all a real spiritual person. Such people only ‘give’ and do not look for ‘gain.’ If a person is looking for something for oneself, he is ‘unhappy’ person.

Now, the dialogue can be effective and long lasting between two happy persons, because they would like to give always. A dialogue between happy and unhappy person will also be effective but one sided and therefore, not healthy and will not last long. The third possibility is a dialogue between two unhappy persons and it will be like; ‘the blind leading another blind,’ both fall into the trench. The first dialogue will be non-violent and accommodative. The second will be partly non-violent and partly violent and the third, violent.

Why this Kolaveri?
In the olden days, people had no problem to have people of other faith in one’s neighborhood. But in the recent years, the trend is changing. Two reasons can be sited here: ‘Marketing’ and ‘Political.’

The rise of Fundamentalism is mainly because of ‘Marketing’ technique of religion. Each one wants to sell his/her goods with attractive shares. Here, the concern seems not the quality of interior happiness nor the Truth seeking, rather quantity of ‘gain.’ In such scenario, can a dialogue take place? Obviously, no.

The second reason can be the merging of politics with religion. Religion has become the handmaid of the political leaders. It is the power which handles the religion. A total separation of religion from politics will yield a better nation.

Challenges
Speaking to a philosopher’s gathering, Swami  Bodhananda expressed his views where one can learn from the other cultures. He said, “Semantic religions are clearly focused but are exclusive. Hindus are not focused but inclusivists. Christians are far ahead in social service, education and healthcare, whereas the Hindus do not have such experience.” The point is very clear, if one wants to have a healthy atmosphere, accept the other and support the other. It is true, that the Christianity stresses too much on structuralism while the Hinduism has the nature of flexibility. However, both are needed for an effective co-existence. One has to learn from the other. If I am a seeker of Truth, will it be possible for me to accept the other cultures and the revelation there? Will that revelation affect the revelation which I am already holding on to? Is ‘My Truth’ the only ‘Truth?’ It is very difficult to answer, but only a dialogue will enable to arrive at the consensus.

In fact this is a challenge before us, to make our world, ‘home,’ a home of love. Since we live in this home, are we not the ‘keepers of this home?’ In order to bring harmony in this home, we need to fight against the corruption, environmental degradation, Fundamentalism, poverty, untouchability etc. These can be real starters to begin our search for an effective and lasting co-existence.  In the establishment of this task, we can be truly called, the “Brothers and Sisters, Children of God, Sons and Daughters of the earth.’


Fr. Raju Felix Crasta

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